Are you behaving Toxic or Know Toxic people?

Toxic People

Today I had a discussion with a woman that I have known for a while. She had a heartbreak that was recent. When inquiring of her overall well being and if she resolved some of the things that she needed to resolve I got input. She mentioned and decided that because her ex person is from a certain cultural background, he is in fact and all of his cultural upbringing, is "messed up.". I like this woman dearly because she is very good at heart and a generous and kind individual, however, she has had some bad luck in her relationship area.

We all have had bad luck but it is important to not become toxic and then share that toxic energy with others. I am not perfect and i write this because i have at one time needed to learn to stop spreading negativity and stop surrounding or dwelling in it myself. This really helps. To realize what we are doing is toxic and to stop it. Right in its tracks! Of course to stay away from toxic is even more important.

There is good and bad in every cultural background, religion, and gender. Not every culture is perfect, not every person is perfect. But everyone can learn to work on themselves and invite into their life only positivity and good energy. This will shift your energy and bring you into a relationship that you want to be in. I can’t stress this enough.

What qualifies people as toxic?

• Do you have an acquaintance that has to inquire about your personal life and has to take anything she hears and turn it into a negative association ??

• Do you have a nagging friend that likes to dwell or complain about only the negative experiences they have been exposed to?

• Do you have friends that love to complain for the sake of complaining? Or a person who only see faults in a relationship because it's not to her understanding?

• People who only dwell in the past?

• People who only criticize and nag?

• People who look at things with the cup as half empty

• People that you must run for the hills and break up with a person because they feel this person isn’t right for you?

This is toxic behavior and these are situations and people who are toxic people. Try to limit or minimize spending time with those people and watch how things shift with your vibrational energy field.

People like this need to be avoided at all costs or have limited conversations and interactions.!!!

When we shift our bad vibes to good vibes, everything changes. And when we limit toxic people in our lives that only complain, pay attention to the negative, consistently stay bitter, and do nothing to improve their personal happiness, then these people will attract that energy to us only if we allow them to.

Pay close attention to your thoughts. Time and time again we have seen and research has shown that what we think or say creates. We are energy beings and our energy creates.

Lets shift our energies and stay away form negativity, toxic people, and surrounds ourselves with bright and happy and uplifted people. You become who you spend time with, so if we try to spend time with positive and uplifting people, then everything for us becomes easier. No one is perfect but when we acknowledge negativity and then say, but today is good because of so and so, and yes this is bad but this is better, we don’t allow it to cloud our judgement, energy, and environment.

Love and peace to everyone

Your loving love and relationship coach -Esty